My friend probably echoed this prayer for a couple of years. Beginning with the discovery of breast cancer, she endured surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation. Before she could savor a victory, she faced a new crisis – one after another. She was a bright light of faith in the dark world of cancer sufferers and she was surrounded by an army of prayer warriors. But at the end, she knew that the answer to her prayers was “no.” What I am about to say would have provided little comfort in the midst of her misery:
We can ask God to deliver us from our troubles and we have faith that he is able; but if he denied the request of his beloved Son, how can we expect our cup of suffering to be taken from us?
So why pray? More to the point: why did Jesus pray? He already knew what the answer would be. He had lived his whole life knowing what to expect and yet he begged to be released from his horrible fate. He knew it had to be done but still he implored his Father to find some other way. What can we learn from our Savior’s anguished cries in the garden that night?
First, we see Jesus submitting to his Father’s will. Before and after his request, he expressed his concession to the Father’s will. Second, we see that Jesus was not hesitant to tell God what he wanted. Even knowing what he knew, and what he knew that God knew, he clearly expressed what he wanted from God for himself.
And finally, we learn the most important lesson from Jesus’ prayer: the true purpose of prayer. Jesus didn’t pray to get stuff from God; he didn’t pray because God didn’t know what his Son wanted. Jesus prayed because he and the Father needed to spend time together. When we spend time with our loved ones, we talk; and God, a jealous God, wants our undivided attention when we talk to him. He wants to draw us so close to him that we are compelled to spill our guts to him – to purge ourselves of what we want and binge on what he wants.
From scripture, we can compile lists of what we should pray for, how we should pray, and whose prayers are answered. But we look to the life of Jesus to see that the true purpose of prayer is . . . prayer.
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