March 3, 2022

Mark 10: 28 (NIV)

Peter said to him, “We have left everything to follow you.”

No one who ever participated in Jesus’ vision of kingdom life ever remained the same.*

When we think of someone giving his life to Christ, we usually think of the bad things he leaves behind: a destructive lifestyle; guilt; hopelessness. But sometimes – perhaps most times – new Christians are faced with rearranging their whole lives. Leaving everything to follow Jesus is not as simple as it sounds.

I knew a young woman who was living with a man and depended on him to help provide for her and her two boys. Becoming a Christian meant ending the relationship – which she did eventually, but it caused an upheaval in her life. What about my gay friend who has been with his partner for nearly 20 years? They have been faithful to each other and their lives are so intertwined that splitting up would be as painful and complicated as divorce. I struggle with how to witness to this friend.

Many people have chosen Jesus over family, careers, wealth, and power. (See Matthew 9: 9 and Luke 19: 1-10 to read of two men who made the right choice; and Mark 10: 17-22 to learn about a man who couldn’t bring himself to give up his old life.) Becoming a follower of Jesus can certainly be disruptive. There is no guarantee of a happily ever after in this life just because you chose wisely. But Jesus responds to Peter’s declaration with this promise: “No one who has left home or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or fields for me and the gospel will fail to receive a hundred times as much in this present age (. . . and with them, persecutions) and in the age to come, eternal life.” (Mark 10: 29 and 30.)

According to Oprah Winfrey, as posted on Facebook, “The only courage you ever need is the courage to live your heart’s desire.” But the Christian's, twist on that statement would read: “The only courage you ever need is the courage to sacrifice the life you want.”*

Many people believe that having decided to follow Jesus, they have safely arrived at their destination. But they’re actually stuck at the terminal. Jesus’ invitation speaks more about movement than arrival.*